The Blended Tribe

June Update

 

Here is a quick update on what’s going on with us:

•School and sports are over for summer…..thank GOD!

•We moved!  Which means no sleep.  The two young ones are having difficulty adjusting to the new house and all the change.  They aren’t the only ones, though; I don’t handle change all that well either.

•I had a little shift in my job—-> it’s the same job but added on more responsibilities and more hours.

•The kids are gearing up for fair. We are down a pig due to Cole’s pig passing away unexpectedly. Only AJ and Anabelle will be showing this year now.

I think that’s it as far as updates go. The move has taken a lot of our time, and we are hoping that life will settle down a little bit and we can enjoy some our summer. We will see how that works out.

I have some blog posts in the works right now. Keep checking back for those. There’s been lots of blended family chaos in the mix of all this 🙂

 

♥ The Blended Tribe

CHANGES & LIFE EVENTS: BLENDED STYLE

 

 

We all know some of the significant stressors in life, you know, the events that cause some kind of stress on us either good or bad.
⋅Death
⋅Divorce
⋅Moving
⋅Loss of Job
⋅Marriage
⋅New Baby

So how would these events not have a significant impact on kids going through them? Right now in our house, we have all four kids dealing with huge life changes at the other parent’s house. How does this affect our kids and in turn us? It affects us by our kids having emotions, thoughts, feelings, attitudes that carry over to our house when they are with us.

Here is what I’m learning through the process….

1. As the parents, be a little more sensitive during this period with the kids. Once I was able to put two and two together, I was able to realize that the kids might need a little more love, attention, and understanding during this time. We’re not letting them get away with things, but we are trying to be a little more sensitive to their needs at this time.

2. Life goes on as usual in our house. We will be sensitive, but nothing changes in our household. We continue with our schedule, chores, and so on. Keep consistent with your normal activities and rules. Kids thrive on consistency and normalcy so keep that up when you have them.

3. Let the kids know you are available and will to talk about any feelings they might have about whats going on. Let them vent or let them express their feelings while not inputting yours. You are only a safe place for them to express what they are feeling and dealing with.

These are the few things I’ve noted so far going through this process with the kids. I will make sure to share if anything else comes up.
It’s all about learning in this crazy house, and it can be exhausting sometimes, but I think we will all turn out better for it.

 

 

♥ The Blended Tribe


 

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